There is a power within every man that often remains untapped because we’ve never truly learned how to hold it.
These three months are not a challenge to prove anything. This is a path where you learn to feel, hold, and direct your sexual energy, your life force, so it can work for you.
I, Olivier, share my passion for this subject and my experience from the past four years of embodying this life philosophy, through trial and error.
The Foundation of This Work
This journey is inspired by both ancient and modern traditions around masculine energy and consciousness :
Taoist practices of energy flow and the microcosmic orbit
Tantra and sacred sexuality
The principles of Brahmacharya
Who Is This For?
This journey is for men who feel there is more available to them :
Men who want to structurally integrate retention into their lives
Men who want their energy to flow instead of being blocked or depleted
Men who want to transform sexual energy into healing and creative power
Men who want to experience 90 days of retention
What This Will Bring You
More energy and vitality
Greater focus and less distraction
Increased self-confidence and inner stability
More discipline and direction
Greater control over arousal and ejaculation
Deeper enjoyment of intimacy without pressure to release
But also:
A deeper connection with your body
Softening of shame around sexuality
More presence in the moment
And for many:
A deeper connection with their (casual or committed) partner
More openness and intimacy
Greater creativity and clarity in life
What We Do
Over these three months, you’ll work with simple yet powerful embodied practices that you can apply daily.
Breathwork & Energy Direction
You’ll learn how to regulate arousal and move energy through your breath :
Slow, conscious breathing to release tension
Learning to inhale into the pelvis and exhale along the spine
Working with the microcosmic orbit : circulating energy from pelvis → spine → heart → head → back down
Experiencing breath as a tool to guide energy through the body
Qi Gong & Movement
We use soft, flowing movements to open the body :
Exercises to release the pelvis and stimulate circulation
Movements that activate the spine so energy can rise
Shaking and trembling to release built-up tension
Simple flows that help energy circulate after arousal
Pelvic Awareness & Control
You develop awareness and control over your pelvic area and sexual energy:
Pelvic floor exercises
Learning to contract and relax without force
Recognizing your level of arousal (20% – 70% – 95%)
Learning to stop before the point of no return
You learn not to suppress, but to feel when and how to direct your energy.
Presence & Slowing Down
This is the core of everything :
Slowing down when energy rises
Staying present in your body instead of reacting
Feeling without needing immediate release
Learning to “stay” with intensity
This is where the shift happens : from being driven by urges to being consciously present with energy.
Practical Integration (Daily Life)
You don’t just apply this in exercises, but in real life :
During self-pleasure (without ejaculation)
During intimacy with your (casual or committed) partner
In moments of stress, boredom, or temptation
In sports, work, and creative expression
You learn how energy doesn’t stay stuck in the pelvis, but begins to move throughout your entire body.
Structure & Guidance
Duration: 3 months, start @ May 3rd
Online sessions every 2 weeks (Zoom calls)
Active WhatsApp group
Personal guidance & a safe container of men
Gino will regularly support us during the online sessions through counseling work. In these sessions, every man can share his process, bring his challenges, and experience real insights and healing.
The Essence
You don’t become powerful as a man by suppressing your sexuality—you become powerful by learning how to hold it.
Do You Feel the Call?
You can register below
You don’t have to be ready, You only need to feel that something in you says yes!
The journey - Practical Details
📅 Timeline
Kick-Off Call (Zoom) Sunday, May 3rd
Repeats every 2 weeks
Each session is structured in the following powerful parts :
1️⃣ Sharing Circle
Participants reflect, share experiences, challenges, and breakthroughs in a safe, guided environment.
2️⃣ Practice Session
A practical exercise to embody the work: breathwork, awareness training, reflection, or integration work.
These calls are not lectures. They are experiential.
💬 WhatsApp Brotherhood Group
Throughout the 3 months, you’ll be part of a dedicated WhatsApp group where you can:
Share experiences
Ask questions
Request support
Offer encouragement
Share insights and inspiration
This is a space of accountability, brotherhood, and grounded masculinity.
💰 Investment
Your financial investment is € 444,00 (VAT included).
This is not a transaction. It is a commitment.
⚔️ What You’re Really Saying Yes To
You’re not paying for information.
You’re committing to:
3 months of self-leadership
Conscious direction of your sexual energy
Accountability
Brotherhood
Inner discipline
You’re stepping into the practice of becoming a safer man.